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Couples & money

How to split rent, groceries and bills when two people earn different amounts: splitting methods, joint accounts and the awkward conversations behind them.

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couple moving housing Oct 26, 2026

Moving In Together: The Hidden Cost of the Move

Moving flat as a couple looks like a single bill, but it breaks down into a dozen small financial leaks that almost no one budgets for. An honest look at the hidden costs and the sensible way to split them.

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couple health sick leave Oct 19, 2026

A Fair Split When One Partner Is on Sick Leave

A long sick leave cuts income to 60-75 percent of the salary for months. Renegotiating the contribution to the shared pot is an uncomfortable conversation that few couples have in time. Here's a guide to having it without waiting for the first unpaid bill.

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couple gifts anniversary Oct 12, 2026

Couple birthdays and anniversaries: the hidden ritual

Your partner's gift comes out of your own pocket; that much we've settled. The doubt is everything else: in-laws' birthdays, joint anniversaries, dinners one person pays for but both of you celebrate. Where the personal ends and the shared begins.

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couple financing appliances Oct 05, 2026

A Bank Loan for Appliances: Who Signs, Who Pays

Washing machine, fridge, sofa. When you buy them on credit, it matters enormously whose name the loan is in, what each person's credit file says, and how you split the instalments as the relationship evolves. It's a formality that looks minor and leaves a mark for years.

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couple inheritance assets Sep 28, 2026

Inheritance in a couple: pool it or keep it separate?

An inheritance always enters in the name of whoever receives it, even if you're married under community property. The hard part isn't the Civil Code: it's deciding, without anyone feeling examined, what share of that money goes to the shared project.

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couple freelance variable Sep 21, 2026

Splitting expenses when one partner earns variable income

One month brings in 4,500 euros and the next just 1,200. Splitting a couple's expenses by a fixed percentage of income punishes the bad streaks; adjusting by quarter with a reserve fund works far better.

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couple christmas gifts Sep 14, 2026

Christmas as a couple: gifts, trips, dinners, who pays

Four weeks, eight fronts of spending and two social calendars that rarely line up. Christmas as a couple is the shared pot's annual stress test, and almost nobody arrives trained.

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couple children blended family Sep 07, 2026

Stepfamily children's expenses: one partner's or both?

When one of you comes into the relationship with children from before, the money flowing in and out for them tests unwritten agreements. There's no good formula here, but there are conversations that get avoided for far too long.

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couple accounts money Aug 31, 2026

When yours, mine and ours collide: the three-account couple

The three-account model, one shared and two individual, is the most popular setup among modern couples. It works if you clearly define what goes into the shared one. If you don't, it turns into seven tangled accounts.

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couple car property Aug 24, 2026

Paying for your partner's car as a couple: the big mistake

Paying half the payment on the car your partner brought into the relationship seems fair, but it creates an invisible liability that sooner or later blows up. The difference between use and ownership changes everything.

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